Two's Better Than One?

If your fantasy is to be dominated by two Dommes, I would suggest you are probably not alone.

I film somewhat regularly with Madam M and also have personal sessions with her, so I would consider myself fairly experienced. I seldom get too worried about what is coming. A new toy or unfamiliar piece of equipment may make me slightly apprehensive, but usually excitement wins.

Madam knows me inside and out. She can read me like a book, and like any responsible Domme she rechecks health, boundaries, safewords and signals before we play.

But this time, I was scared.

Excited, certainly, but scared.

We would be filming with Inanna Justice. I consider it a great honour to serve Madam, and the opportunity to submit to two Dommes was unquestionably a privilege. Watching two dominant women enjoying themselves, exchanging ideas and feeding off one another’s energy can be an extraordinary thing to be part of.

Perhaps experience was actually part of the reason I was nervous. I had filmed with the two of them together once before and had also been involved in a few other double-Domme sessions, so I knew what could happen when two dominant women started responding to each other’s ideas, reactions and enthusiasm.

I had seen them work together before. I could already picture the look they would exchange when one of them thought of something the other wanted to try.

This time, I knew I was going to be squarely in the middle of it.

For me, that intensity is part of the appeal. It can be enormous fun, incredibly immersive and one of the most memorable ways to experience submission.

If you are trying a double-Domme session for the first time, you should expect to discuss boundaries, safewords, signals and pace with both Dommes beforehand. Madam and Inanna do this as a matter of course. It gives everyone a shared understanding of the scene and gives you room to say what you are comfortable with.

The same applies wherever you choose to play. Take the time to find people you feel comfortable speaking openly with, especially if you are still learning how you respond when a scene becomes intense.

Because two isn't simply one plus one.

When you know your Domme well, you begin to learn her rhythm. You recognise the look that means trouble, the change in tone, the pause before something happens. Even during an intense session there are natural little gaps, although you may not consciously think of them as breaks.

Madam stops to attach a cuff. She changes position. She chooses another implement. She taps a cane against you while judging exactly where she wants the next stroke to land. Those few seconds matter. Your body gets a moment to recover, you catch a breath, your brain catches up and you prepare yourself for whatever comes next.

When two Dommes decide to keep the pace up, those little gaps have an annoying habit of disappearing.

While one is attaching the cuffs, the other does not necessarily have to stand there politely waiting. While one is positioning the cane, the other is perfectly capable of keeping you occupied. One can be preparing whatever comes next while the other is still dealing with whatever is happening now.

That is the real difference.

It is not simply that two Dommes can do more to you. The entire rhythm of the scene can change.

There can also be two completely different focal points at once. With one Domme, your attention is usually drawn towards whatever she is doing in that moment. With two, you may suddenly find yourself trying to process two entirely different sensations at opposite ends of your body.

Your attention has nowhere obvious to settle, and neither sensation necessarily waits its turn.

Then there is the way they interact with one another. One has an idea and the other improves it. One notices a reaction and the other notices that she noticed. Like plenty of things in life, from their point of view two heads can be considerably better than one.

They also have four hands, which alone opens up an impressive number of possibilities.

One of my favourite moments with Madam M and Inanna Justice illustrates the whole thing rather well. Madam was happily attacking one of my nipples with a small paddle when she suddenly stopped. For some strange reason, however, I continued moaning.

“I barely touched you!” Madam exclaimed, immediately scanning the rest of me to make sure nothing was wrong.

Nothing was.

What Madam had not initially noticed was Inanna Justice at the other end of me, pressing a particularly unpleasant pressure point in my foot.

Madam spotted what was happening and they both burst out laughing.

As the pressure released, so did I.

That moment probably explains playing with two Dommes better than any serious theory I could offer. Yes, the intensity can increase enormously, but so can the fun. BDSM does not have to become relentlessly solemn simply because the play is intense.

There is something wonderfully overwhelming about becoming the focus of two dominant women. Two voices, two personalities, four hands and two people reading your reactions from slightly different perspectives can create an extraordinary headspace.

It can also be bloody exhausting.

That is why communication and pacing matter. A good double-Domme experience can build at a pace that works for everyone involved.

Looking back, my nerves came from experience, not uncertainty. I knew how quickly the rhythm could change, and I knew how much I enjoyed surrendering to it.

The trust I have in Madam allows me to surrender to that intensity. Sharing the scene with Inanna brings a different energy and rhythm, rather than simply doubling what Madam and I already have.

If the idea appeals to you, I hope the prospect of extra intensity does not put you off. A session with two Dommes can be playful, carefully paced or demanding, depending on what everyone agrees to.

You may find that the rhythm, the attention and having so much happening at once are exactly what make it enjoyable. It can definitely be twice the fun!

I have been fortunate enough to experience it more than once, and it still manages to surprise me.

As a masochist with a particular fondness for corporal punishment, I ought to know what I am inviting when I put myself in a room with two inventive sadists. Apparently not.

Still, I wonder if they’re free tomorrow?